Free Relationship Ebook Available During Lock Down

The current lockdown period can put stress on relationships. When husband, wife and children (plus sometimes grandparents or others) are stuck inside together for weeks on end, it can be overwhelming… sometimes leading to tension and conflict. To support you during this challenging time, Vimala and Jaya Sila have made their  book available for a […]

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  • April 20, 2020
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Tuning In

Today we’re gonna talk about getting clarity in tuning-in with each other and your everyday relationship. This is important if you wish to avoid getting into conflict.

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  • March 9, 2019
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The Honeymoon Effect

You’ve heard the saying ‘Familiarity Breeds Contempt.” This is a big one and it’s so easy to do. At first we don’t see any faults – we might say we are ‘blinded’ by the honeymoon effect, but the fact is that we are not looking for faults in the beginning stages of a relationship. We […]

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  • March 9, 2019
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Drop 3 – Drop the Blame

Taking responsibility… In our book and when coaching couples we always warn about getting drawn into the ugly ‘blame game’…the game that nobody wins. We’ve all been there. This is when we find ourselves dwelling on and even painfully dissecting who is at fault…or even who is ‘more’ at fault! This is a hard one […]

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  • March 9, 2019
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