The Honeymoon Effect
You’ve heard the saying ‘Familiarity Breeds Contempt.” This is a big one and it’s so easy to do.
At first we don’t see any faults – we might say we are ‘blinded’ by the honeymoon effect, but the fact is that we are not looking for faults in the beginning stages of a relationship. We are also choosing to be the best version of ourselves that we can be. The solution to this one is simple – don’t fall into those negative habits and patterns that indicate over-familiarity. These include, criticizing, complaining, ignoring, nagging etc.- all those qualities from the lower modes! These all culminate in a lack of respect and mutual respect between husband and wife is a vital component for healthy relationships!
And if you have fallen into the over-familiarity trap, don’t forget to use the 5 drops to dissolve your negative patterns and get your relationship back on track.
There are 2 more prominent relationship destroyers to be careful of…so keep tuned for more soon!